The formlessness of that which is one seems very restricted, when you want more than that which is one. Hence you start to wonder, if oneness is all there is. And next you look outside of it to see, if there could be more than one.
Looking for more though is an illusion, regardless you look inside or outside of that which is one, because it is formless and therefore has no sides. Besides it requires more than one to look for something and as formlessness is endless and therefore everything, there is no more than that which is one. Nevertheless you imagine there is a world outside of it, where there is more than one and with you as another one.
In such a place it is experienced as if there is more than one place to go and more than one to meet, but just like a dreamer remains the same in the very same place, while having a dream with different appearances in different places, that which is you remains the formlessness of that which is one, while appearing to be someone definitive in a world where there seems to be more than one.
Even in a world where there seems to be more than one it is well know secret, that such a world is an illusion, as scientist according to scientific research it consists of 99% empty space with 1% energy. In other words, when you see and feel a tangible world it is make-believe.
There is no more than the formlessness of that which is one, so believing that the experience of appearances – whether they appear to be spiritual or material – is real, you are lost in the imagination, that it is possible to be and have more than the formlessness of that which is one.
And you will remain lost, as long as you believe there is a soulmate, god and whatnot to be found, or there is anything to learn except that there is no more than the formlessness of that which is one.
While you are lost in an imagination of being and having more than the formlessness of that which is one, a way to undo the craving for more is to really go for more, because doing so you will realise, that no matter how much more you become or get it does not lasts. And as reality must last in order to be real, you learn that a world where there seems to be more than one is not real.
Knowing that you are relived, because this means – presuming that you are real – you are not there, and so there is nothing to worry about.
NOTE: Not looking for more but less is also to look for more.